Comments on: Carol Sarler a Freelance Journalist on Wed 20th Nov, Hits Out at Cry Silent Tears and other memoirs!! http://www.joepeters.co.uk/2008/11/24/carol-sarler-a-daily-mail-journalist-on-wed-20th-nov-hits-out-at-cry-silent-tears/ Fri, 10 Sep 2010 01:31:01 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 By: Ashley http://www.joepeters.co.uk/2008/11/24/carol-sarler-a-daily-mail-journalist-on-wed-20th-nov-hits-out-at-cry-silent-tears/#comment-2018 Ashley Mon, 03 Aug 2009 18:15:10 +0000 http://www.joepeters.co.uk/?p=425#comment-2018 The frustration of arrogant, ignorant pricks like her....GRR...well we can't change them i suppose. The frustration of arrogant, ignorant pricks like her….GRR…well we can’t change them i suppose.

]]> By: Lou http://www.joepeters.co.uk/2008/11/24/carol-sarler-a-daily-mail-journalist-on-wed-20th-nov-hits-out-at-cry-silent-tears/#comment-2012 Lou Tue, 28 Jul 2009 21:13:30 +0000 http://www.joepeters.co.uk/?p=425#comment-2012 Anyone who does not think its a good thing to write about these terrible experiences to self heal and help others... like this Carol Saler twisted cow ..must be a pervert or evil ..because any normal person would want to hug you and be very proud of the way you not only survived.. but created a positive life for yourself you are an amazing angel Joe xx Anyone who does not think its a good thing to write about these terrible experiences to self heal and help others… like this Carol Saler twisted cow
..must be a pervert or evil ..because any normal person would want to hug you and be very proud of the way you not only survived.. but created a positive life for yourself you are an amazing angel Joe xx

]]> By: trina http://www.joepeters.co.uk/2008/11/24/carol-sarler-a-daily-mail-journalist-on-wed-20th-nov-hits-out-at-cry-silent-tears/#comment-1982 trina Tue, 14 Jul 2009 14:32:39 +0000 http://www.joepeters.co.uk/?p=425#comment-1982 My only thoughts can be that this woman(carol)cannot relate to anyone in the above mentioned books,and i can only say isn't she the lucky one!Just because all these people(above mentioned authors),grow up and write a book,do you really think that will make that person forget the years of torment?. You only have to live through something like abuse ,then you go on to realise there is not "ONE "day in the rest of your lifetime that those memories will not be inside your head! Possibly,these authors are giving hope and courage to other victims,and that should not be discouraged!!!!!!!!!! My only thoughts can be that this woman(carol)cannot relate to anyone in the above mentioned books,and i can only say isn’t she the lucky one!Just because all these people(above mentioned authors),grow up and write a book,do you really think that will make that person forget the years of torment?.
You only have to live through something like abuse ,then you go on to realise there is not “ONE “day in the rest of your lifetime that those memories will not be inside your head!
Possibly,these authors are giving hope and courage to other victims,and that should not be discouraged!!!!!!!!!!

]]> By: Emma http://www.joepeters.co.uk/2008/11/24/carol-sarler-a-daily-mail-journalist-on-wed-20th-nov-hits-out-at-cry-silent-tears/#comment-1950 Emma Sun, 28 Jun 2009 22:01:21 +0000 http://www.joepeters.co.uk/?p=425#comment-1950 OMG, What a nasty spiteful bitch! carol sarler should be ashamed to call herself a human-being. Joe, you have done a good thing. I swear that woman should be sacked or better still be made to see a child that has gone through abuse,(then again she would probably say that it was all a put on). She's just as evil as the abusers. I have just finished reading your book Joe i couldnt put it down. Keep up the good work and dont let the bitch get you down x OMG, What a nasty spiteful bitch! carol sarler should be ashamed to call herself a human-being. Joe, you have done a good thing. I swear that woman should be sacked or better still be made to see a child that has gone through abuse,(then again she would probably say that it was all a put on). She’s just as evil as the abusers. I have just finished reading your book Joe i couldnt put it down. Keep up the good work and dont let the bitch get you down x

]]> By: vicky calder http://www.joepeters.co.uk/2008/11/24/carol-sarler-a-daily-mail-journalist-on-wed-20th-nov-hits-out-at-cry-silent-tears/#comment-1940 vicky calder Mon, 22 Jun 2009 18:00:28 +0000 http://www.joepeters.co.uk/?p=425#comment-1940 Carol Sarler is either a very sick or a very evil woman. She is as bad as the abusers. I hope she rots in hell! Carol Sarler is either a very sick or a very evil woman. She is as bad as the abusers. I hope she rots in hell!

]]> By: Amie http://www.joepeters.co.uk/2008/11/24/carol-sarler-a-daily-mail-journalist-on-wed-20th-nov-hits-out-at-cry-silent-tears/#comment-1923 Amie Mon, 15 Jun 2009 04:21:57 +0000 http://www.joepeters.co.uk/?p=425#comment-1923 When I read her article it made my blood boil,i honestly dont know who this woman thinks she is!! I started reading your book last night and i couldn't put it down ive just finished reading it and its now 5:15am :) you went through some horrific things and even when you really wanted too give up hope you carried on and in the end you pulled through and found happiness as a sufferer of mental illness due too suffering abuse as a child it gives me hope that you can be happy even after all the crap you get put through....id also like too say i am only 18 and was shocked too see how much you had been through at my age,i also used too self-harm but i have come through the other side and hope too help people with my experiences one day...you story is truely an inspiration too young survivors like me and people everywhere!! As for you carol your nothing but a stuck up bitch livin in your little naive bubble where everyone has the perfect life..NEWSFLASH they dont lovey..open your eyes and pull the pole out of your arse until then keep your disgusting opinions too yourself! x When I read her article it made my blood boil,i honestly dont know who this woman thinks she is!! I started reading your book last night and i couldn’t put it down ive just finished reading it and its now 5:15am :) you went through some horrific things and even when you really wanted too give up hope you carried on and in the end you pulled through and found happiness as a sufferer of mental illness due too suffering abuse as a child it gives me hope that you can be happy even after all the crap you get put through….id also like too say i am only 18 and was shocked too see how much you had been through at my age,i also used too self-harm but i have come through the other side and hope too help people with my experiences one day…you story is truely an inspiration too young survivors like me and people everywhere!! As for you carol your nothing but a stuck up bitch livin in your little naive bubble where everyone has the perfect life..NEWSFLASH they dont lovey..open your eyes and pull the pole out of your arse until then keep your disgusting opinions too yourself! x

]]> By: Maria D. Luyando http://www.joepeters.co.uk/2008/11/24/carol-sarler-a-daily-mail-journalist-on-wed-20th-nov-hits-out-at-cry-silent-tears/#comment-1915 Maria D. Luyando Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:12:54 +0000 http://www.joepeters.co.uk/?p=425#comment-1915 I have three questions for you Carol Sarler: 1)Have you ever experienced child abuse yourself? 2) For that matter, porn? If not, how could you possibly know anything about either one? My cousin was abused by her father-I know I was a little girl at that time, but I saw something I wasn't suppose to see and it scared me. I can't even imagine putting myself in Joe's place, I don't think I would have survived - would you have? My sisters and brother were fortunate to have loving parents who loved us very much. Wondered if you have any kids of your own or are you incapable of love, compassion or just plain feelings for anything/anyone? If you don't then I feel sorry for you, you just don't know what you're missing. The difference between you and Joe is that Joe has gone thru so much and instead of having all that hatred bottled up inside of him – he has put it to good use by helping others that are in the same situation he once was in! This guy has a right to write about it, especially if the system failed him!!! He's giving this world much, much more then what this world has given to him all his life! What have you contributed??? The only person who truly loved him was his father – and no matter what his mom or brothers did or said to him – it’s probably the only thing they couldn’t take away from him, that ounce of love which stayed in his heart forever. What he said about his father in his book was out of anger for the situation he was in, but the love his father had for his son, might have been the very thing that gave Joe the strength to survive - it might have been the only thing Joe held on to all these years without realizing it! I read the book and gave it to someone else to read - I thought it was beautifully written – Joe THANKS for sharing that with the world – Maria! I have three questions for you Carol Sarler:
1)Have you ever experienced child abuse yourself? 2) For that matter, porn?
If not, how could you possibly know anything about either one? My cousin was abused by her father-I know I was a little girl at that time, but I saw something I wasn’t suppose to see and it scared me. I can’t even imagine putting myself in Joe’s place, I don’t think I would have survived - would you have? My sisters and brother were fortunate to have loving parents who loved us very much. Wondered if you have any kids of your own or are you incapable of love, compassion or just plain feelings for anything/anyone? If you don’t then I feel sorry for you, you just don’t know what you’re missing. The difference between you and Joe is that Joe has gone thru so much and instead of having all that hatred bottled up inside of him – he has put it to good use by helping others that are in the same situation he once was in! This guy has a right to write about it, especially if the system failed him!!! He’s giving this world much, much more then what this world has given to him all his life! What have you contributed???

The only person who truly loved him was his father – and no matter what his mom or brothers did or said to him – it’s probably the only thing they couldn’t take away from him, that ounce of love which stayed in his heart forever. What he said about his father in his book was out of anger for the situation he was in, but the love his father had for his son, might have been the very thing that gave Joe the strength to survive - it might have been the only thing Joe held on to all these years without realizing it!

I read the book and gave it to someone else to read - I thought it was beautifully written – Joe THANKS for sharing that with the world – Maria!

]]> By: Jessieq http://www.joepeters.co.uk/2008/11/24/carol-sarler-a-daily-mail-journalist-on-wed-20th-nov-hits-out-at-cry-silent-tears/#comment-1909 Jessieq Tue, 09 Jun 2009 18:51:45 +0000 http://www.joepeters.co.uk/?p=425#comment-1909 This Bitch needs a sock in her mouth. No child deserved to feel pain what is she on about she just talks too much rubbish. She does not have a heart for the little one's well at least we both agree she is a BITCH! Your book opened up peopl's eyes to the cruel world around us not only did you make us want to fight for children you also made us relize how special and precious they are and we need to save them before its too late. This Bitch needs a sock in her mouth. No child deserved to feel pain what is she on about she just talks too much rubbish. She does not have a heart for the little one’s well at least we both agree she is a BITCH! Your book opened up peopl’s eyes to the cruel world around us not only did you make us want to fight for children you also made us relize how special and precious they are and we need to save them before its too late.

]]> By: Emma http://www.joepeters.co.uk/2008/11/24/carol-sarler-a-daily-mail-journalist-on-wed-20th-nov-hits-out-at-cry-silent-tears/#comment-1905 Emma Tue, 09 Jun 2009 13:07:22 +0000 http://www.joepeters.co.uk/?p=425#comment-1905 Hi, I have just finished your book 'Cry myself to sleep'. I have read both your books and have been inspired by both your fight to survive and also your courage to keep trying till it goes right for you. This stupid cow Carol has probably never been 'forced' to do anything she does want to do and Mummy and Daddy have probably provided everything for her. Well I have been 'forced' and believe me it's not nice, but my experience was no where near as bad as what I have read about and I applaud you and everyone who has spoken up. I have never been able to, and probably never would be able to speak up. She needs to get a grip and step into the real world. Ignorant bitch. Keep up your hard work, it is appreciated by many. Emma x Hi,

I have just finished your book ‘Cry myself to sleep’. I have read both your books and have been inspired by both your fight to survive and also your courage to keep trying till it goes right for you.

This stupid cow Carol has probably never been ‘forced’ to do anything she does want to do and Mummy and Daddy have probably provided everything for her.

Well I have been ‘forced’ and believe me it’s not nice, but my experience was no where near as bad as what I have read about and I applaud you and everyone who has spoken up. I have never been able to, and probably never would be able to speak up. She needs to get a grip and step into the real world.

Ignorant bitch.

Keep up your hard work, it is appreciated by many.

Emma x

]]> By: ann athraby http://www.joepeters.co.uk/2008/11/24/carol-sarler-a-daily-mail-journalist-on-wed-20th-nov-hits-out-at-cry-silent-tears/#comment-1888 ann athraby Tue, 02 Jun 2009 10:01:15 +0000 http://www.joepeters.co.uk/?p=425#comment-1888 Hi Joe,I have just finished reading your book . Cry Silent Tears.I am so touched by your courage and determination to survive such horrifics circumstances that you have come through.I admire you for all you are and what you have achieved.I was sickened by it all . I understand what you are saying to all the people in the world and i do hope they take heed.I don't care foR the social services or most organised groups , as i have seen and experienced a lot of what they are about . Carol syler wants kicking into touch as there are so many like her who put children into danger rather than saving them .My sister experienced six terrible years fighting for custody of her two grandchildren and was constantly put through torture through the social services as too was my youngest son . His heart was broken when they dragged his three children from him while at school , through no fault of his own . He was with a girl who already had three children and they had three more togetheir . She was involved with peaodofiles and lesbians and gay people in turn allowing them to abuse her three eldest children , who were also taken into care .With the good strength and love , he finally won his three children back and has raised them on his own ever since . Im talking about 8 years or so now .The other children were awarded a lot of money but returned to the mothers clutches when they were old enough to make their own dicisions and she is now a grandmother . her youngest of the first three still being in care . He is a disruptive child and vowed never to return to her . She married a man in a wheelchair who has only one leg for reasons of her own and also helped her two older children spend the money they had been awarded.. The man who was at the top of the abusers was sent to prison .Seems to me that the abusers always win . Not fair on ordinary decent folk .Please reply, if you are well enough to do so . I would love to hear from you .It is a brave person who can reveal to the world the things that you have endured . Kindest Regard s Ann .. Hi Joe,I have just finished reading your book . Cry Silent Tears.I am so touched by your courage and determination to survive such horrifics circumstances that you have come through.I admire you for all you are and what you have achieved.I was sickened by it all . I understand what you are saying to all the people in the world and i do hope they take heed.I don’t care foR the social services or most organised groups , as i have seen and experienced a lot of what they are about . Carol syler wants kicking into touch as there are so many like her who put children into danger rather than saving them .My sister experienced six terrible years fighting for custody of her two grandchildren and was constantly put through torture through the social services as too was my youngest son . His heart was broken when they dragged his three children from him while at school , through no fault of his own . He was with a girl who already had three children and they had three more togetheir . She was involved with peaodofiles and lesbians and gay people in turn allowing them to abuse her three eldest children , who were also taken into care .With the good strength and love , he finally won his three children back and has raised them on his own ever since . Im talking about 8 years or so now .The other children were awarded a lot of money but returned to the mothers clutches when they were old enough to make their own dicisions and she is now a grandmother . her youngest of the first three still being in care . He is a disruptive child and vowed never to return to her . She married a man in a wheelchair who has only one leg for reasons of her own and also helped her two older children spend the money they had been awarded.. The man who was at the top of the abusers was sent to prison .Seems to me that the abusers always win . Not fair on ordinary decent folk .Please reply, if you are well enough to do so . I would love to hear from you .It is a brave person who can reveal to the world the things that you have endured . Kindest Regard s Ann ..

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