NSPCC & Childline EXPOSED (Throwing your money away?)
You may ask yourself are charities like Childline & the NSPCC, who are now one, are they really spending our public money wisely? the answer is NO! Did you know that the NSPCC & Childline are wasting millions of pounds each year and its getting worse? Did you know that out of £1.00 of public dontions 90p is wasted on admin, very little indeed goes to child abuse, as such the NSPCC enjoy buying executive company cars for staff, being the latest jags or other top of the range vehicles, HELLO AM I MISSING SOMETHING HERE?
Some people even have direct debits set up and pay monthly amounts, I really don’t know how many people actually know how serious this matter is, why do you the UK public support such a cause!! I have been attacked by supporters of NSPCC for exposing there spending habits, why should I not allow the general public now what they are up too, they spend more money like there is no tomorrow on raising more cash and for the fat cats at the end of it to get a big bonus. I’m sorry but there is no excuse for this madness. I hear some good news that Mary Marsh is finally resigning, the best news I have heard for a long time). why can’t they follow the fine examples of NCH thats spend over 90p or more on children). I have nothing but hold great respect for NCH spending, this is a charity that the NSPCC and Childline need take note of and follow in there footsteps.
Did you know they also Jet off 1st class travel only, here and there and wasting your money? are you happy with this? first class travel is no objective to this business, its no way a charity, greed and power its gone mad? Did you know that the NSPCC is more like a commercial business now than a charity? Are you happy with how they are been abusing public donations? (I refused to get any funding from the NSPCC, as I do not want to be associated with there scandels and disgraceful methods). I do think some of things they do are very good, however 80% of what there doing is so damn wrong!!
I’d like to take over the charity, I would sacked every single member of the trusties as they are not doing there job properly and the chairman would have to go as well, and the thorn in my backside Mary Marsh the (director) you would have to go first!! You may bully other charities and trusts, but I am not backing down too you!! (I am letting the public exactly know what your charity is up too).
As a child that suffered abuse I am certainly not happy with the NSPCC they didn’t help me and they are failing abused children every single day!! I won’t publish some of the damning e-mails I get from both victims and survivors. (As they certainly will raise some eye brows to say the least), instead I am compiling evidence to produce to the charity commission to investigate and make the public aware.
Image and expensive posh parties are more important than spending money on child abuse, campaigning to raise cash is more important than actually helping children in need, that are vulnerble and at serious risk. I am speaking out as I have had enough of there reckless spending habits.These charities spend more on flashy functions than a small average charity receives in donations in a year; they go through so many volunteers and have gone far too big and have failed to meet targets in relation to children, I would like to see an independent public inquiry to investigate these two charities concerned.
Have you ever worked for the NSPCC or Childline, would you like to speak out? Then please contact us.
Aare you a child that has been let down by these charities then you have a right to speak out, please e-mail us or comment on this blog.
DID YOU KNOW THAT NSPCC & CHILDLINE ACT MORE LIKE ANOTHER GOVERNMENT DEPARTMENT? A COMMERCIAL BUSINESS THAT HAVE NOT GOT A CLUE IN HOW TO ACT RESPONSIBLY WHEN IT COMES TO 100 OF MILLIONS OF DONATIONS GIVEN TO THEM BY US!
The Charity Commission should be ashamed of themselves for allowing this to happen. Big charities are bullying and not being policed correctly; why is the media not exposing this ongoing scam? because these two charities pay millions on advertising to the media, “don’t bite the hand that feeds you”!
I am an out spoken person, my job is to make sure that child abuse is stopped, not in a way of throwing lavish parties with public donations. I have had enough of these two charities using abused children, to raise money for themselves and then to go on and abuse its funds.
I think most of the UK public would like to see an inquiry into the accounts of the NSPCC and Childline. Yes, its all in there accounts they say; so why are so many of us so naive and keep giving to charities that do nothing but help themselves
I have alot against NSPCC or Childline as their ridiculous spending of public donations and campaigning has gone beyond all madeness. A shake up is urgently needed so start paying attention Mary Marsh! I think the time has come to “FULL STOP” NSPCC getting away with this scandal.
I am all for people donating money, but only if it is going to where it is needed, CHILDREN in this case!!
I am exposing this fact as I am tired of these charities using children’s misfortune for their own benefits, harsh words but this needs to be addressed.
I am sure the NSPCC and Childline are capable of sorting this mess out, I have lost all confidence in these two charities however, they need a big shake up and I am willing too do it for nothing!
Why? because I really do care for child abuse victims.
Now we come to the fact, do we trust charities like the NSPCC & Childline to deliver a good service to Vulnerable Children, the answer in my opinion is NO! When I was a child, they never helped me - I felt betrayed and let down; they could of done more to help me, are they really interested in my views? NO they are not, Why? because they do not like to be challenged.
Are they really doing all they can for vulnerable children, NO, they are not, and they could do a lot more. I have found that NSPCC and Childline find other charities and foundations a threat to them. I am really annoyed also that the Government has just given 30 million to the NSPCC. Mary Marsh needs to go and should be sacked over the mishandling of public donations.
I have no time for greedy charities that use children to raise money for there own gain! Where is the money really going? certainly not enough in stopping child abuse.
Do you think that NSPCC, Childline and the BBC’s Children in Need have a duty too give money to important charities that offer counselling to children over 16? The answer is NO, not according to them, so these children grow up and end up where you may ask? What happened to breaking the chains of abuse, FULL STOP I thought the NSPCC was interested in?
NAPAC and Foundations like mine are snubbed, yet it is Charities and organizations like ours that really count and make the difference to help victims to break the silence and get help and to break the chains and circle of abuse? you cannot do half of the job and leave the rest.
Draw your own conclusions! Child abuse starts with ADULTS!
The real issues here need addressing once and for all! Someone needs to wake up and smell the roses as something really stinks about all this.
NSPCC told to spend its cash on children not campaigning
The charity’s aggressive and high-profile advertising campaigns ensured it an income of more than 100 million in 2003
But Lord Laming, chairman of the Climbie inquiry, said the work of such organisations was seriously undermined by a lack of “basic systems and processes” when it was revealed that the NSPCC’s family centre failed to visit Victoria once in the six months between receiving an urgent referral and her death from appalling abuse.
Now the charity is accused of spending too much time trying to ban parental smacking and too little on children at genuine risk of abuse. Civitas, the Institute for the Study of Civil Society, claims supporters would be horrified by the sums of money spent on “preaching” campaigns, funds that would be better spent on front-line work to protect children.
“So many children’s charities have cut back on actual child protection to concentrate on quite tendentious issues,” said Robert Whelan, Civitas director. “I took a very cynical view when, at the time the NSPCC was being lambasted (by the Climbie inquiry), it launched yet another in-your-face anti-smacking campaign.
“It was trying to seize the moral high ground when it had failed to do the very thing we want it to do, intervene to save children like Victoria.” Families First, a family advocacy group, accused the NSPCC of questionable tactics after the charity published a poll claiming that the majority of parents supported legal reform against smacking.
“The truth is that it didn’t ask what people thought about smacking; it asked how people felt about ‘hitting’ children which is altogether different,” said Norman Wells, of Families First.
“It is like asking whether doctors should be allowed to stab their patients. Everyone would say ‘no’ but it would be dishonest to draw the conclusion that there was an overwhelming public support for a legal ban on inoculations.”
The NSPCC strongly rejects such criticism, arguing that its remit is to prevent harm to children before it happens, as well as afterwards. Any suggestions that the charity had lost public confidence, was in crisis, or harboured views that were unrepresentative were “absolutely not true”.
“We [tackle child cruelty] by being available on the ground locally, through our helpline nationally and through public education,” said Mary Marsh, NSPCC director. “Hitting children is wrong and dangerous and the nature of our present law does not protect children at all.”
The society has just announced plans to spend another ? million on an advertising campaign by Saatchi and Saatchi to outlaw smacking. Such campaigns were not a waste of money just because ministers would not support them, Miss Marsh said.
The NSPCC, which employs 1,800 staff, is the only children’s charity with statutory powers to take action to safeguard children at risk. It can apply for a court order to place a child under supervision or in care but normally works with the police and social services to assess risk and deal with it.
It operates 180 child protection teams across England, Wales and Northern Ireland but spends less than 50 per cent of its budget on “child protection and preventative services and projects”.
David Hinchliffe, Labour chairman of the Commons health select committee, believes it is right for the NSPCC to adopt a more campaigning role against child abuse and corporal punishment. “With improved statutory services for child protection, raising awareness is what it should be about,” he said.
But NCH, another children’s charity, takes a different approach. “We spend 92p in the pound on children’s services,” said Miriam Solly, NCH director of communications.
“We are very service-led and subsequently our profile is nowhere near as high (as the NSPCC’s) which I am not arguing is always a good thing.”
Miss Marsh remains unrepentant about the NSPCC’s approach. “You could not end cruelty to children just by providing services for a few children in a few places,” she said. “You have got to campaign publicly and it has worked.
“If you go back six or seven years, people used to deny children were abused on the scale we now know is true.”
Miss Marsh, who joined the NSPCC only two years ago, seven months after Victoria Climbie’s death, insisted that the organisation was now “fit for the future”.
Victoria’s death had forced the organisation to look critically at itself and it remained committed to learning lessons from the case.
“No organisation ever wants to be involved in having failed. Sometimes when things go wrong, people can be shocked and concerned but if they pay attention to how you deal with it, confidence can increase,” said Miss Marsh.
Members of the public could have absolute confidence that when they referred children to the NSPCC, the case would be dealt with properly, she said.
August 28th, 2008 at 8:03 am
I have never trusted the NSPCC to ensure that all funds they receive go to the children it was meant for. My reasons are unknown but i have felt this for many years. I like yourself do want to make a difference to protect children from abuse and i am at the present time trying to find the best route for me to take. I hope to open a pre-school with a difference, as i want the parents to be looked after as much as their children. i am a practitioner at a level 2 and feel i am more aware of my children’s needs and their families needs more than my manager is at a level 5.
i want to help parents to look after and care for their children appropriately and abuse free. in some cases this will take training.
i don’t want to make loads of money, just enough to survive for my family. I do however want to make a difference to others as much as i possibly can and i am determined to achieve this.
the public to need to know how the NSPCC work, and i must say mu feelings toward this charity has been bought to light by your opinions.
well done for speaking out.
kind regards
sandra
August 29th, 2008 at 9:39 am
i hate the nspcc and childline, I am 14, I am being hit by my mum and my dad keeps doing things too me, I cannot get too the nspcc or there helplines. i am scared and i can talk to you please joe, i read your book and i am like to am scard to to tell. me help me joe
lisa
August 30th, 2008 at 8:22 pm
hi there,
i think you are totally right about the nspcc and childline spending money on fancey cars and partys, i myself was never able to trust or talk to them as i was abused by my brothers best friend at the age 8 it will stay with me forever it still makes me sick to my stomach to learn that there are still people out there being aboused by family and friends even strangers, but just like you joe i have manage to pick up my life and carry on as best as i can, i now have a very understanding boyfriend and a beautiful son, feels like i now have something to wake up for and carrying on in life, your book realy inspired me it made me come out to my boyfriend a little bit more and told him some more of my past life.
i want to thank you joe for being brave to tell the world your story as i think i would still have this all bottled up inside if it wasnt for reading your book.
jane x
August 30th, 2008 at 8:28 pm
this is a little message for lisa also, i dont think its right what your mum and dad are doing to you, you need to find a responsible adult you can trust and talk to and tell them, it will be a bit hard at first but it wont go away if you dont attempt it. plz try to say something i do know its easyer said than done, you have the rest of your life to live keep your head up dont let them put you down!!
if you wish to contact me then leave a comment and i will be in touch some how
jane x
September 6th, 2008 at 3:32 pm
I am utterly disappointed that these things are happening. Joe’s book made me so sad, i was literaly crying the whole way through. I myself in society am not in a strong enough position for anybody to listen to what i have to say. I can not believe that the people that are in authority can stand back in this world and let this happen. My heart goes out to all the children that have ever been abused. Is there anybody out there that can help these children and not think about their own selfish needs.
Well done Joe, I know it took you a while but you did it, you are a person for these children to look up to, keep doing what you are doing.
Tammy xx
September 24th, 2008 at 7:45 pm
We read all kinds of things in the papers watch all things on the tv it never seems real but joe;s book made it all real these thigs do happen and not enough is done to help these children when they really need it.Prison is not enough for the monsters,joe was so brave his book really made me cry felt as if i just wanted to comfort him but he won thank you joe for sharing your story with us. x
September 24th, 2008 at 7:47 pm
Also to lisa please be strong please find someone you can confide in a teacher,best friend anyone you trust at all they are hurting you and its not fair your a young woman that deserves so much better im here to talk to you anytime contact me as you like il et back to you i promise x x
October 2nd, 2008 at 9:29 pm
Hi Thankyou for bring this to my attention I am one of those who have been supporting NSPCC through a direct payment and also through E BAY charity sells
I thought that I was doing the right thing that a lot of the money goes to help abused children I am disgusted to hear this isnt the case
I thought that I would support NSPCC as I was abused from the age of 2 until 8 by my Mother and Adoptive Father - When I was abused I thought it was the normal I thought that all kids were beaten I was only little so why wouldnt I
I thought it was normal to be dragged out of my bed and beaten and not allowed to scream because if I did I would get worse
I thought it was normal to be told to take time off school when I was 6 to look after my 3 year old brother
I was one of the lucky ones I was only physically and metally abused not sexual
I was also lucky in that my Mum seperated from my adoptive Father when I was 8 My Mum asked my Grandparents to look after me for a couple of weeks when she went on holiday she returned 9 months later with another man who was to be my Father but my Nan wouldnt let me go back to my Mum so therefore I escaped
October 13th, 2008 at 3:24 pm
I never trust charities like these anyway, i mean other than bombarding poor children with personal and intruding questions what can they actually do?…their staff im sure are not trained as they should be to handle all situations and may have some vague want to help people but at the end of the day surely no one is nieve enough to think a phonecall can change a child’s life…first of all how are abused children supposed to get hold of a phone in the first place and second of all how many children realise that their abuse isn’t just normal everyday life until they get alot older? Not many. More obviously how do people think they get the money to have all these fancy adverts on the telly? It sure as hell isn’t from government funding. The government would rather problematic children did fall off the face of the earth than got the help they need. Especially in developing communities, i live in Lincolnshire and i can confidently say there are no obvious lifelines out there to help children, i know people who have grown up without help and also have had children themselves at ridiculously young ages who are now being neglected with no help from anyone despite social services being aware of the situation…it’s a sad world we live in but i’ll get there eventually and crack the system into working order!
January 14th, 2009 at 8:45 pm
i used to work for childline.. it was voluntary work and i did it as a placement whilst doing my degree in childcare. i worked at the birmingham branch for just over a year. i was extensively trained in child counselling before i began actually answering the phones to children in need of help. we got hundreds of calls a day and were unable to answer them all, which was heartbreaking. i had some very upsetting calls, but i truely felt the work i was doing was making a difference. i gave up 6 hours of my time every week to answer the phones at childline and i am thoroughly glad i did. the phone calls varied from me just being a friendly ear and listening, to me actively contacting social services or the emergency services on behalf of the children. i even had some regular callers that i counselled every week and i know i helped. i am proud to have done that and have often thought about going back to it. i was not involved with the campaigning/fundraising side of things at childline however and didn’t really know or speak to anyone there who was.
i know that childline and the nspcc are joined as one now, but this is not obvious in the many many adverts on the tv for nspcc. there’s a very small childline symbol in the corner of the screen and thats it! and its never mentioned that they are now working together.
i ONCE, about 10 years ago when i didn’t know any better, gave a one off donation to the nspcc when i was ambushed by them on the street and bullied into donating. i have never made any other donations since or had a regular direct debit payment for them. BUT, they somehow managed to get hold of my landline number when i moved up to birmingham and STILL phone me, every 3 months or so asking for more money. they’re relentless and that in itself really puts me off donating to them. no other charity that i know of, even ones that i have donated to, has ever phoned me at home to ask for money. its ridiculous! anyone feel free to reply to this or contact me. susiewilk@yahoo.co.uk. susie x
March 13th, 2009 at 12:33 am
Hi there Joe, since I read your book ‘Cry Silent Tears’ and left a comment re: the pathetic Carol Sarler, I have been dipping in to this site every few weeks to see how things are going. Haven’t bought your new book yet but fully intend to just as soon as I can.
More to the point on this blog re: the NSPCC. I have long held many suspicions about this so called charity and also Childline. I know of at least one instance of both failing to help a neglected child left home alone since I was the person that reported the parents to both and saw they did absolutely nothing.
I agree with the above too about the extensive and expensive TV advertising which pleads for donations rather than using the opportunity to promote their helpline numbers thereby extending a lifeline perhaps to kids who might need their help.
Does not surprise me one bit if they are indeed providing their staff with flashy cars. Disgraceful.
Since reading your book Joe I have read many others and most recently ‘Unloved’ by Peter Roche. This is particularly relevant here in discussing the NSPCC, since his photograph as a dirty, neglected and abused child, taken by Lord Snowdon, was used to promote the NSPCC’s fundraising efforts for many years!!!!!!
Interestingly this author mentions that he still went on to suffer for many years AFTER the NSPCC became aware of his plight.
No doubt Lord Snowdon made a nifty few bob for his part in this promotion paid for probably out of the NSPCC’s ‘advertising budget’.
All this said, I do believe some kids are helped but I also believe that the numbers are very very small, and that the ‘help’ is given by unpaid volunteers like Susie above, and not the staff driving the fancy cars!
Hope all is well in your world at present Joe. Your first book still haunts me in the small hours. Of all the similar books that I have gone on to read it is still your story refuses to leave my memory. I am in awe that you not only survived so much horror but moreover grew up into a ‘remarkable man’. Well done, you truly are a super star and an example to us all.
Will make a donation to your foundation when I write my own book one day as I would certainly trust your charity above the others.
Best wishes to you and all, Caroline M.
April 26th, 2009 at 11:42 am
I’m horrified. As one of those who has supported the NCPCC by direct debit for many years - purely because I hate child cruelty and thought I was doing the right thing!!! Writing today to cancel my DD and thank you for bringing this to our attention. Yvie X
June 13th, 2009 at 10:56 am
i am reading your cry silent tears at the moment i’m on chapter 13, my mom read it then my sister then my cousin and now they have passed it on to me, i have read some terrible books before now, but this is as my mom say’s, like no other, i have three son’s and a baby on the way and i could never inflicted the life you had on to my baby’s. I have been in tears through out the book, reading your book made me think aboout baby p, and it makes me so angry that people like this are still ahving children, there will always be sick people in the world and thats makes me so sad. From the moment i read the book and the first part about your dad iknew he was a good man, i am soo sorry for you that you lost him. my thoughts are always with you and you are so brave and strong for what you servived. Tammy C… 23 xxxxxxx <3<3<3 xxxxxxx
from birmingham
July 25th, 2009 at 7:25 pm
I am only on Page 68 of your book Cry Silent Tears and I am waiting for the chapter that says “fooled you!. . . none of this is real!” I am having a very hard time understanding that such a young boy could put up with repeated beatings day after day after day. Did no one see your bruises? When you went to the doctor, he didn’t see? This is almost like some cruel joke that is not ending. I am broken hearted to think that a MOTHER could do such horrific things to a child, nevermind that child being her own flesh and blood. I don’t know how this book is going to end, but I hope there will be a time that she will rot in hell for what she did to you. This is just unconscienable. I am sick to my stomach over it. Kudos to you for somehow ending up and adult with a happy marriage. I would have thought you would end up being a mass murderer or a schizo at best. Very, very sad.